Make it better,a perspective on life that always helps and changes your mindset.

My great-grandmother was an amazing woman—tough, wise, and full of grit. She helped raise me, and I owe so much of who I am to her influence. She had a way of seeing the world that was both grounded and empowering.  One of her favorite sayings still echoes in my mind.  When I’d come to her as a kid—complaining that something wasn’t fair, that I didn’t like what was happening, or just plain whining like kids do—she’d bend down, look me square in the eye, and say:

“Make it better.”

That was her mantra. She wasn’t scolding me. She was calling me to action. What could I do to improve the situation? Not just wish things were different—but be the difference.

Looking back, it’s the same mindset behind ideas like Kaizen or the Deming method—small, continuous improvement. And you know what? It works.

So today, in honor of her spirit and practical wisdom, here are 7 ways you can make life better—starting right now:

1. Start Where You Are

You don’t need perfect conditions. You just need a beginning. Whether it’s tidying up your space, making a phone call you’ve been avoiding, or writing the first paragraph of that book—you have power right now.

2. Ask Better Questions

Instead of “Why is this happening to me?” try “What can I do with this?” Questions shape our focus, and better questions lead to better answers.

3. Do One Small Thing Well

Sometimes the best improvement isn’t big—it’s something small done with care. Make your bed. Write a thank-you note. Prep tomorrow’s lunch. One win leads to the next.

4. Own What You Can Control

There’s power in recognizing what’s within your reach. Your attitude. Your words. Your effort. Focus on those, and you’ll be amazed at how the world responds.

5. Practice Micro-Kindness

Smile at a stranger. Compliment your barista. Text someone just to say they matter. These things ripple farther than we realize—and often come back around.

6. Use Your Frustration as Fuel

Feeling off? Frustrated? Use it. Channel that energy into something useful—a walk, a journal entry, a new idea. Energy, when directed, becomes progress.

7. Repeat the Phrase: Make It Better

Make it your own mantra. Whisper it when things feel messy. Say it when you’re unsure what to do next. It’s not about perfection—it’s about motion.

Final Thought

“Make it better.” Three simple words from a woman who didn’t have a fancy education or a book deal—but had a heart full of wisdom.

She taught me that we don’t have to wait for permission or ideal circumstances. We can start now—with what we have—and move forward.

That’s a lesson worth passing on.

Thanks “gramma” your still with me.