“Creativity is piercing the mundane to find the marvelous.”
—Bill Moyers
Let’s be honest—sometimes it’s not the big problems that drain us. It’s the laundry, the dishes, the never-ending to-do list of life’s little obligations. These aren’t the kind of things that make headlines, but left unattended, they quietly pile up and rob us of clarity, joy, and momentum.
I know this firsthand. I’ve led teams through complex transitions, coached others to find purpose, and written books about meaningful living—but that doesn’t mean I’m immune to feeling overwhelmed by the mundane. There are still days when I stare down a list of errands and wonder where the time went.
But I’ve also learned a few strategies that help me take back control—and I’d love to share them with you.
1. Write It Down and Get It Out of Your Head
One of the simplest ways to reclaim peace of mind? Make a list. Not in your head. On paper or a screen.
I use a task manager daily, but even a notepad will do. When I list everything—even “refill the dog food bin” or “schedule a haircut”—I reduce that mental clutter. I’ve found it’s not the task itself that causes stress, but the mental energy of remembering it.
Try this: Break down big chores into smaller pieces. Don’t write “clean the house.” Write “vacuum the den,” “wipe down counters,” “empty trash.” Small wins add up.
2. Time Block the Boring Stuff
Blocking time isn’t just for CEOs or creatives. It’s a gift to your future self. I often dedicate 30 minutes after lunch for those life admin items—bills, emails, minor repairs. That way, they stop haunting the rest of my day.
Quick tip: Schedule these like appointments. Put “return Amazon item” on your calendar at 2:30 p.m. Just seeing it there makes you more likely to follow through—and frees up brain space in the meantime.
3. The Two-Minute Rule Is Gold
This is one of the best productivity hacks I’ve ever used. If it takes two minutes or less, do it now.
Respond to that quick text. Put away the clean dishes. Toss the junk mail. These micro-tasks can pile up and create unnecessary tension—especially for those of us managing ADHD or easily distracted brains.
I’ve trained myself to act immediately on the “little stuff,” and the relief is almost always instant.
4. Make It Fun or At Least More Pleasant
Mundane doesn’t have to mean miserable. I’ve been known to turn cleaning out a drawer into a race against the clock or to blast some blues while folding laundry. If I’m walking the dogs or organizing papers, I’ll put on a podcast that fills me with new ideas.
Suggestion: Pair your least favorite task with something you love. It makes it feel less like drudgery and more like self-care.
5. Leverage Tech to Work Smarter, Not Harder
When used with intention, technology can be a lifesaver. I rely on apps like OmniFocus to organize my life. I also use recurring reminders for things like “change air filters” or “check bank statement.” That way, these don’t sneak up on me.
Favorite tools:
- OmniFocus (for deep-level planning)
- Apple Reminders or Todoist (for everyday tasks)
- Google Calendar (to visually block time)
Even setting up a few recurring reminders can make a massive difference.
6. You Don’t Have to Do It All Alone
One of the most important lessons I’ve learned—professionally and personally—is that delegation isn’t just about leadership; it’s about sanity.
At home, my wife and I talk through our weekly must-dos. We share the load, and if something doesn’t need to be done by us? We delegate. Whether it’s hiring a cleaning service once a month or asking a friend to help with a project, support matters.
Try this: Have a “division of tasks” conversation with your partner, kids, or even roommates. It’s not about perfection—it’s about teamwork.
7. Build a Routine and Let It Carry You
Routines can be life-giving. Every evening, I do a quick reset: I tidy my workspace, prep my to-do list for the next day, and lay out what I’ll wear. These small rituals take the decision fatigue out of tomorrow.
Morning routines help too—even just five minutes of quiet, stretching, or journaling can change the tone of your whole day.
8. Show Yourself Some Compassion
Some days, life wins. You won’t finish the list. You’ll forget something. That’s okay.
I used to beat myself up for not doing enough. But I’ve learned to extend myself the same grace I offer others. When I pause, breathe, and remember that progress—not perfection—is the goal, the pressure lifts.
Bonus tip: Practice mindfulness. Even one intentional breath can interrupt the mental spiral of “I have too much to do.”
9. Reflect Weekly and Celebrate the Small Wins
Every Friday, I do a quick review. What did I get done? What’s still hanging over me? What could I handle differently next week?
It’s amazing how this one habit has helped me build momentum—and even more importantly, recognize progress that might otherwise go unnoticed.
Final Thought: The Mundane Can Be Meaningful
When we stop viewing the mundane as meaningless and start treating it as a path to clarity and freedom, everything shifts.
Life isn’t just made in the mountaintop moments. It’s shaped in the quiet, repetitive actions that build order, space, and presence. When those tasks are handled with intention—even joy—they become part of the architecture of a well-lived life.
So let’s not dread the mundane. Let’s master it.