Over the years, I’ve realized something simple but powerful: the life I experience is largely shaped by my choices. That doesn’t mean I control everything, but it does mean I control how I respond, how I show up, and what I decide to do next.

That little phrase—“It’s going to be, it’s up to me”—has become more than just a mantra. It’s a daily reminder that I’m not waiting on the world to permit me to live fully. I already have that power. So do you.

Each day brings new chances. We can pursue what lights us up, invest in the people who matter, and pay attention to the small, meaningful moments that give life texture. Sure, the world can be unpredictable. Life throws us curveballs. But steering our ship—especially in rough waters—is where the growth happens.

Setbacks? I’ve had plenty. But I’ve learned that each carries a lesson—an insight, a wake-up call, or a nudge to try a different path. The key is to keep moving. Keep choosing. Stay engaged.

What if we looked at life as a series of intentional moments? What if we leaned into joy, kindness, and growth—not just when it’s easy but especially when it’s hard?

Here’s the truth: You and I are creating our lives, moment by moment. And when we own that, everything changes. Life doesn’t just happen to us—it happens through us.

So, let’s take that next step. Not someday—today. The future we want isn’t waiting out there somewhere. It begins with the choices we make right now. And I believe that’s pretty magical.

—Gary